Aidil is 3 months old!

Hi..
Aidil's actually turn to 3m old about 3 weeks ago and i just realize that i didnt write any post about it yet.
Forgetful me.. anak baru sorang. My head is too messy with everything.
Hopefully it will get better soon enough.

One thing that makes me really happy today till i cant stand another day to postpone this post is because,
finally, Ahmad Aidil able to get on his tummy today!!  \\^0^//
This happened at Kg. Ketapang, Pekan,Pahang - Aidil's Tok Mi & Tok Lid ( Anwar's ayah side-grandparents house)

too bad sempat snap pic jer..x sempat nak rakam video

I now its not a big deal ( to some people) but i was very happy.. and me just being a drama queen mama didnt know how to react to this progress.
hehe but then i decided to clap my hand like i just wont 1million dollar jackpot. =p
He's been trying to do this since few days back but, u know,  my family just couldnt leave him unhold for long.
Thus his effort usually left halfway.
This is his 1st time in Pekan, 1st time for my parents and mak long too - as they also came along with us.

This weekend is actually a hard decision to make for me and Anwar.
We have a very best friend of mine wedding in Kulim  and a kenduri of Anwar's relative who helps us a lot during our wedding till Aidil's 2nd Aqiqah ceremony in Kuantan.
At last we decided to go to Kuantan coz 1st, family is always 1 step more important for both of us, 2nd - Anwar is going to have a course in Perlis by end of this month, so we shall visit our best friend that time.

Speaking of Aidil's 2nd aqiqah ceremony, i think i'm going to write about it in my next post - soon, hopefully!

Till then, xoxo!

p/s : Congratulation to my best friend Nurul Hidayah Ishak & husband! i really wish i could be there..

pic credit to Fauziah Ahmad FB

the Ombak Rindu Family Trip

Hahaha title tak hagak..
Akhirnya sampai jugak seru nak update blog yg bersawang ni..

Well, we went for a short family trip during CNY holiday to Kelantan-Terengganu.
Its actually a long-time postponed trip that has been plan since i was 6months pregnant!
My ibu was the trip leader ( as always.. ) and the main reason we all wanted to go to the east coast of Malaysia is for FOOD!
Yeah.. we all loveeee pantai-timur food. the nasi kerabu..ayam percik..tomyam..nasi sup..etc.. yum yum

So this trip includes 3 families - Keluarga kak Sal ( my ibu =p ), keluarga Mak J & keluarga kak Leha (hehe thats our mak long) with 4 cars - yes we went by cars with lots of pitstops

Peserta rombongan :
  1st car : Papa, Ibu, Sufi & Ahmad ( duduk dgn nenek hokesss..sabo je la)
  2nd car : Kahar, Bda, Pak Tam, Wafi
  3rd car : Qayyum, Faisha, K.Ida
  4th car : Nwar, Me, Mak long & Mak Tam
We make collection for hotels/apartment and meals (rm25 per head per day - sgt berbaloi and murah okes! ) - hehe kate rombongan cik kiah..

penumpang kereta no4 - layanan 1st class

Journey started at dawn (3am..zzzz) on Sunday coz papa plans to have Subuh prayer at R&R Sg Perak then breakfast at Kuala Kangsar ( kampung area ) so that our journey thru Grik hopefully will be easier.
Kat Kuala Kangsar Tol, we met Kak ida's family ( she came with Faisha and Qayyum) after that eyeing any local stall along the road yg nampak syok for breakfast.

Oh, Ahmad was doing sooo good all the time.. he slept soundly in his scout ( finally my husband got the idea why i wanted to buy that scout - he said it worth the money we spent sbb anak die tido lena..hehe) then woke up happily time kite org breakfast. Wut a good handsome boy he was! =)

Then we continue our journey to Kelantan. arived there around 12noon.
Our 1st pitstop was a ayam percik stall - which cik ka dok merengek dr shah alam nak ayam percik =p

hot from oven .. sanggup tu tunggu demi ayam percik

aku yg nyaris2 nak sergah pengantin yg dtg lambat..haishhh

pengantin yg berarak nak dekat kul 4 ptg.. semoga berkekalan ke akhir hayat.

wajah2 kusyuk..family aku je ke kt meja lauk ni? hehehe

Oh, actually there's a wedding (papa's staff) that we hv to attend @ Pasir Mas area.
Jadi, we had our free lunch at the wedding.. Then checked -in to our apartment @ Kota Baru area.
Alaaa.. ni yg boring update lambat2 ni.. lupe dah name apartment tu. tp it situated betul2 depan masjid kt tgh2 KB tu. 
Wutever.. but its very convinient for a big family vacation - ada kitchen, 2 rooms + 1 big hall, good location.

rajinnyeee mok chu sufi.. hehe ni je gambar dlm apartment tu yg bisa dikongsi..yg lain sensored.

I seriously couldnt recall every single thing we had/ did but all i can say, it was a great vacation.
I always love a big family holiday.. love the merriness!
It just sometimes impossible to gather all of us as a family at the same time, same place.
Hopefully next time, may Allah bless us with more rezeki so that we could plan another cool family trip ~,*

So, the ombak rindu part was actually on our way back to KL.
We slept over at Kuala Terengganu for a night, thus sempat laa buat little window shopping at pasar payang and feast our tummy with the local seafood stall.

Ahmad had his 1st swimming pool splash at the hotel as well!
we went betul2 at noon dgn harapan air pool tu tak la sejuk sgt kan..hehe pity him.
We just want him to get used with his parents one of many fav things to do.. =p
He survived anyway..- for less than 5 minute ( at least we/he tried hehe )

wif his best travel partner.. abg wafi!

muke x puas hati hehe

Till my next post, love!

Teaser : feeling Ombak Rindu Family Trip

2 Months old!

Pejam-celik tibe2 my prince dah 2 bulan!

He is growing well , Alhamdulillah.. becoming cleverer everyday =)

So, for the 1st time me & nwar brought him to paeds clinic for his 2 month jab (DTP).

Most paeds clinic are still celebrating CNY so we randomly went to any clinic that open for his vaccination.

(since u know, Aidil's father insist to bring his child for vac himself before go back to Melaka)

Luckyly jumpe Chye Child Specialist Clinic kat Taipan USJ.

Dr is so friendly and soft ( no wonder Aidil say hi & smile to him - by his own way, of course) but camera unfriendly =p ( biase la, doctor2 berumur ni penyegan sket).

He's a consultant in Sunway medical center at daytime and in his clinic open after 6pm everyday.

So, Aidil latest update is 

Weight : 5.8 kg (above 5th percentile)

Length : 60cm ( above 5th percentile)

Head circumference : 39cm 

Conclusion : He's a bit big but not fat as we can see. Thus, he's normal & healthy baby boy! =) mama happy!

muke macho b4 kene inject..hehe pastu jerit, nangis2 ngadu sakit =p
(oh, baju tu hadiah from Adib&Sya , and that orange lion watch is from makde@ayu - Tq! )

Wordless Wednesday

Aidil's 1st stay @ Jada-Jadi's house

the 2nd cot @ usj

Regret

Its bee a while since my last blog
Well, i'm not that bz lately..My routine has been more relax compare to berpantang period.
Now dah hampir seminggu habis pantang but still, i spent most of my time terperap dlm rumah.
It just sometimes dlm rumah yg berbeza .
The only time yg i could curi2 tgk dunia luar (in reality, not thru surfing) adalah time naik kereta from my mom's house to mak's house (my aunty @ shah alam - ade la 2 x je pergi) or to my in laws house in USJ.
So, kalau nak kire betul2 my actual perintah berkurung was started 1 week before bersalin. Since then - till now i am a truely, deeply, insanely HOUSEwife.
Tak tahu la org lain mcm mane.. i think i'm suffering post partum depression now. hehe
yup, just because i was (am) not allowed to go out of the house. Or lebih tepat takde siape nak bawak i keluar - to at least breath the fresh air outside atau sekurang2nya ronda2 tgk lampu kat jalan??? ( i am that desperate).

Tak tahu mcm mane nak explain bout what i feel exactly, tp seriously, duduk terperap ni mmg memBOSANkan. Mula la start fikir macam2..then dari fikir turn to meluat, geram and lama2 jd benci.
I cant burst my emotion/feeling to my parents..dah la menumpang kan, nak tunjuk besar kepala pulak.
and its ridiculous to blame maklong ( yg duk jage anak aku almost 80%) or sufi (my lil sister yg byk tolong this and that).
Hence, Anwar yg balik hujung minggu everyweek kerap jadi mangsa. Too bad.
Simple mistake turn out to be looong silent between us. Then, mula la recap semua bende dr mual2 kawen - mengandung - bersalin ..
Everything happens so fast...habis belajar, bertunang, kawin..then tibe2 dah jd mak budak. Now i'm a bit lost to find myself in between all these.
Why did i get married?
Why did i agree to become a mother / parents? - Maybe i should wait for another year or two ?

Niat baik utk balik rumah in laws so that they have their precious time with liittle Aidil turn out to be not a proud memory. I tried my best not to show anything to them tapi that's only me.
I know myself as a very secrecy person tapi kadang2 kite terpakse menanggung kesan daripada tindakan org lain. Mungkin menceritakan segala masalah kpd org lain adalah jalan terbaik to some people.
Ape pun, i'm just an ordinary hamba Allah yg tak dpt nak puaskan hati semua org.
Tibe2 td time "round" tgk blog org, jumpe blog Hanna Johary ni pastu got caught by one of her topic

Cara Menghilangkan Rasa Tidak Puas Hati Terhadap Suami

She is so right. No doubt about what she said in her blog. 

Masalahnya... can i be or even change my mind like her? How is that going to change me?

Susah kan jd isteri ni.. hehe i should've think about all this earlier. 

(nasib baik gak tak fikir, kalau tak sure jd andartu ..or is it better to be a janda anak satu??)

Oleh yg demikian, i berazam to make myself less depress/stress from tomorrow ermm..today.

Dah dapat green light from my mom utk kluar (- not with my son still) to settle some stuff.

i already got plan to hang out with some friends too..!

Soon, i'm going to fulfil my abandon spa & facial plan. Also retail therapy (I need a totally new wardrobe)

Hopefully, i'll be better..cross fingers.

Till then, please pray for a better me, i thank you in advance.

Aidil's 1st parcel from my BIL - Azlan@uncleLan in Deutchland

Merdeka!

Alhamdulillah..

I'm finally 45 days post partum - means my confinement period has come to the END !

So happy but still .. i just stay at home. (~duh~~ ala2 Boboi)

No outing yet.. but we've already plans for tomorrow and next day and next.. =)

I think i'm not too late to wish Happy 2012!

He is 44days old..and yes darling, i love u too!

Till then, xoxo~